A sexual stimulation device comprising: (a) an elongate member comprising a proximal end, and a distal end dimensioned for placement in an orifice of a user (b) an external stimulation arm comprising a proximal end, a distal end, and an external stimulation surface and (c) a flexible connecting portion that connects the elongate member to the external stimulation arm at their respective proximal ends wherein the flexible connecting portion permits movement of the external stimulation arm relative to the elongate member between an open position and a compressed position.