A thrust bumper device, system and method for sexual intercourse using a thrust bumper device and optional extension wherein a thrust bumper comprises a distal part; an inner part; a proximal part; and, a penile port; wherein: a phallus is inserted in the penile port on the distal part by a penetrating party; the tip of the phallus penetrates through the thrust bumper and is inserted into an orifice of a receiving party, and the thrust bumper and/or its optional extension buffer increases comfort and pleasure during sexual intercourse.