The present invention relates a method and system for interacting with an intelligent adult product. The method comprises the steps of: establishing connection between an intelligent adult product and an application in a user's mobile terminal； controlling, by an acceleration sensor in the intelligent adult product, the motion of a three-dimensional character in the application； and, viewing, by a user and by using a VR box, sounding persons and objects in a virtual scene in a first-person perspective or a third-person perspective. In the technical solutions provided by the present invention, by allowing a user to view a virtual and vivid character scene by wearing a VR box and then controlling the motion of characters in the virtual scene by an intelligent masturbation cup or an intelligent bracelet, the motion synchronization between a real character and a virtual character is realized.
