Embodiments of the present invention provide a sexual massager that is configured to communicate (directly or indirectly) a message to a target in response to an occurrence of an event. The sexual massager may be a sexual aid. Messages may be generated based on various pre-sets and/or user selections established to determine a type of message, content for inclusion in the message, the target, the event, and other customizations. The content of the messages may be generated based on a variety of options, such as random, customized, or based on usage parameters, such as biometric, device settings, and temporal information.