A smart apparatus system includes one or more food and liquid smart tableware apparatuses that each have a processor, memory, and a weight sensor. The smart apparatuses communicate with a cloud server and one or more caretaker computing devices. The caretakers can input physical information for the user including weight. The smart apparatus system can determine the healthy weight range for the user and determine a recommended feeding schedule. The smart apparatus system can remind the caretakers to feed the user, monitor the quantity of food and liquid that are placed in the smart tableware apparatuses and the consumption of the food and water by the user and transmit reports to the caretaker's computing device(s). The smart tableware apparatus system can maintain the recommended feeding schedule to keep the user within the healthy weight range or adjust the feeding schedule to bring the user's weight within the healthy weight range.