A bone anchoring device includinga receiving part (5) for coupling a rod (100) to a bone anchoring element (1), the receiving part comprising:an upper member (8) with a first end (8a) and a second end (8b), a passage (85) extending along a central axis and a recess (83) for receiving the rod;a lower member (10) having a first end (10a) and a second end (10b) and a passage (101) extending in axial direction, the lower member being connectable to the upper member from the second end of the upper member, wherein the lower member comprises a seat (92) for a head (3) of the bone anchoring element;a pressure member (6) for exerting pressure onto the head, the pressure member being at least partially arranged in the upper member;wherein when the lower member is connected to the upper member, the lower member can assume a first position in which the head is pivotable in the seat and a second position in which the head is locked relative to the lower member and to the upper member.