An apparatus (1) for forming an absorbent pad for an absorbent sanitary article comprising a first layer, a second layer and an absorbent material interposed between the first and the second layer, comprises: a forming drum (2); a first feed system (4) for feeding to the forming drum (2) a first web (NW1), intended to form the first layer (101); and a second feed system (5) for feeding to the forming drum (2) a second web (NW2), intended to form the second layer (102); at least one spreader (6) for spreading the absorbent material (103) on the forming drum (2); the first web (NW1), the second web (NW2) and the absorbent material (103) together form a composite web (NW) and the forming apparatus (1) comprises a system (10) for joining the first and second webs (NW1, NW2) and a system (20) for calibrating the thickness of the absorbent material (103) in the composite web (NW) and being located upstream of the joining system (10) in a feed direction V of the composite web.