The present invention relates a method and system for interacting with an intelligent adult product. The method comprises the steps of: establishing connection between an intelligent adult product and an application in a users mobile terminal controlling, by an acceleration sensor in the intelligent adult product, the motion of a three-dimensional character in the application and, viewing, by a user and by using a VR box, sounding persons and objects in a virtual scene in a first-person perspective or a third-person perspective. In the technical solutions provided by the present invention, by allowing a user to view a virtual and vivid character scene by wearing a VR box and then controlling the motion of characters in the virtual scene by an intelligent masturbation cup or an intelligent bracelet, the motion synchronization between a real character and a virtual character is realized.本發明涉及一種與智能成人用品的互動方法及系統,包括:智能成人用品與使用者移動終端中的應用軟體建立連接;通過智能成人用品中的加速度感測器控制應用軟體中三維人物的運動;使用者通過VR(virtual reality)盒子以第一人稱視角或者第三人稱視角觀看虛擬場景中帶有聲音的人和物。本發明提供的技術方案讓用戶通過佩戴VR盒子觀看到虛擬、逼真的人物場景,繼而通過智能飛機杯或者智能手環控制虛擬場景中的人物運動,以達到真實人物與虛擬人物在動作上的同步。使用者在視覺、聽覺獲得身臨其境的感受,同時也在觸覺上獲得最刺激的體驗。