A sexual aid apparatus with a safety feature includes (a) a shaft element configured to emulate a human penis and to be placed against genitals or inside a human orifice, (b) an electric vibrating motor located within the shaft element, the electric vibrating motor configured for vibrating the shaft element so as to produce sensation in a user utilizing the shaft element against genitals or inside a human orifice, (c) a flexible cord coupled to a distal end of the shaft element, the cord configured for having a tensile strength of at least 20 pounds per square inch, (d) one or more spherical elements coupled to the cord and located between ends of the cord, the spherical elements configured for insertion into a human orifice and for producing sensation in the user； and (e) one or more crystal elements coupled to the cord and located between the ends of the cord, the crystal elements configured for insertion into a human orifice and for producing sensation in the user.
