An external voiding apparatus includes an oval/canoe shaped receiver cup, with an outlet at one end of the receiver cup, a check valve assembly, and a valve seat attached to the receiver. The receiver cup has open top and gradually sloping, walls that converge at the outlet adjacent a lower area of the cup. The valve assembly is disposed between the receiver cup on the valve seat in the reservoir. The cheek valve may comprise a valve body with an aperture covered downstream by an easily deflectable membrane, or a flat tube type valve. The fluid coupling assembly includes a coupling from the reservoir for a tube. A fluid collection container (e.g. a Foley bag) may be fluidly coupled to the drain tube connected to the reservoir drain. The gasket and receiver cup may include a phosphorescent polymer to provide a glow in the dark effect, a handle attached to the receiver cup and a removable cover. A wide compressible resilient gasket is provided on the top edge of the receiver, which may be anatomically contoured. A support member suitable for holding the aforesaid apparatus in convenient reach of the user and/or associated care givers completes the system of the invention.