A user conformable incontinence clamp includes two plastically deformable wires, a first end of each wire elastically connected at a flexible hinge. A second end of each wire includes a selective attachment mechanism that can be connected together to form a continuous loop. The user conformable incontinence clamp further includes a padded tube that provides adequate force distribution for user comfort. To use the user conformable incontinence clamp, a user may open the clamp, position his penis within the clamp, close the clamp around his penis, and then plastically compress the clamp against his penis to provide a desired level of incontinence protection.