A sex toy containing personally meaningful items, comprising a shaft substantially phallic in size and shape with an internal, hollow channel in which the personally meaningful items are held. The personally meaningful items, such as jewellery, locks of hair or ashes of a deceased lover, are contained within the internal channel such that when the sex toy is inserted into the vagina or anus, the items are essentially inside the user. The container may be permanently sealed or have a detachable lid so that the items can be removed or replaced.