A therapeutic adult cyber sex toy for use over the internet incorporating the premise of video chat interaction with programming capable of supporting interpersonal sexual experience utilizing a set of communicating controllers produced in the form of male and female genitalia. The controllers of the present invention correlate to that of the partner. The males controller is in the form of a mock vagina having an optical sensor at its opposed end along with buttons for inducing commands in a linked females controller, the female controller is in the form of a dildo and has a similar command interface for interacting with the males controller. Partners are capable of affecting each others experience by varying settings in the others controller while using their own, such variables can include vibration, heat, auditory/video feedback and frequency.