A system to convey massage preferences of a first user to a second user, the first user to receive a massage from the second user, the system comprising a first interactive device, including an input module for receiving a set of preference inputs from the first user, the set of preference inputs describing a massage to be received by the first user, a process module for processing the set of preference inputs, and a transmission module for transmitting a representation of the set of preference inputs to a second interactive device, where the second interactive device includes an interface for displaying the representation of the set of preference inputs to a second user.